Posts in Self/Grow
To My Kids: Race & Me

Your dad is an older white man (as I’m sure you are well aware!) I am very far from the experience of what is going on. And so, as this sad scene has played out, I’ve stayed on the sidelines. I don’t have any solutions, so I said nothing. Madonna blew it with her Tweet; I’m sure I might too. And then this morning, I thought of you. My children. And it became clear; I was making a statement. I was “saying” something by saying nothing.

And so, here’s what your dad thinks, for what it’s worth.

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Solving Work's Biggest Problem

Work—any work—has one fatal flaw, and it kills any chance to get things done. Well, I have the solution. Pretty bold statement, right? It’s true. And, I’ll teach you some Italian on the way. What is work’s biggest problem, and how have I found a solution?

Coming right up.

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What My Young Daughter is Teaching an Old Dad

When my daughter Brynn was about eight, my days as a selfish, myopically-American businessman changed forever. That shaped her worldview. Now, all these years later, she’s returning the favor.

Frankly, it hasn’t been pleasant. In fact, I’m embarrassed that I had to learn it. Recently, I’m not growing old. I’ve just been getting old.

Here’s how I’m getting closer to what’s good.

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Tiger Kings and People Cages

Maybe it’s my age.

I'm finding it harder to watch other peoples’ train wrecks without it also wrecking me.

The Netflix show everyone’s talking about is Tiger King. I just finished it and it’s unleashed a pandora’s box of thoughts and emotions for me. I used to be able to watch shows like these, smile and shake my head at the sheer craziness of others’ lives. I can’t seem to do that anymore. Instead, I want to tell you, in my humble opinion, what it’s really about; why I think it’s so popular, and finally, what it says about us and the people we want to be.

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